Hi, I’m Kendra. I’m the life coach your wife chose to work with as she begins healing from the pain of betrayal. You should know, that choice took real courage. She’s facing something incredibly painful and still choosing to believe there’s a way forward.
You’ve both been through a lot. There was a time when your choices had the most power in this relationship, and your wife didn’t get much say in how things unfolded. But now, she’s reclaiming that power by getting help. This time, she does have a choice, and she’s choosing to heal. I hope you’ll support her in that.
When a wife decides to work with a professional who specializes in betrayal trauma, it’s not about blame. It’s about giving both of you the best chance at rebuilding trust, safety, and connection. I’ve spent a decade helping couples in this exact situation, and I’ve seen incredible things happen when both partners get on board.
Yes, coaching costs money. But avoiding that cost doesn’t make the pain disappear. In fact, the couples who heal most fully are the ones who treat this as an investment in their future together. The alternative, avoiding, minimizing, or delaying, usually ends up costing far more in distance, resentment, and regret.
Your wife’s decision to get help is actually one of the clearest signs that she still believes in your marriage. She wants to trust you again. She wants to feel close to you again. And she’s willing to do the work. This is your chance to show her that you’re willing too, by standing behind her choice and supporting her healing fully, both emotionally and financially.
I’ll do my part in every session to help her move from survival toward strength and clarity. She’s ready to do hers. Now it’s your turn to do yours. When that happens, the possibilities for your marriage are greater than you might imagine.
Recently, two husbands joined their wife’s session just to say hello. Both told me they had been sure their marriage was over, yet after their wives began coaching, everything changed. They said the peace and connection that returned to their homes was something they hadn’t felt in years. I’d love to offer you that same opportunity. If you’d like to join your wife for a short consultation, I’ll walk you both through what this process can look like when you work as a team. Many couples find that one simple conversation can open doors they didn’t think existed anymore.
I’m looking forward to helping your wife, Kendra
If the letter spoke to you…
Sometimes a wife deeply wants to start coaching but struggles because her husband hesitates to support the decision, especially when it comes to paying for it. This letter was written for those moments — to help both partners see that getting help isn’t about blame, it’s about giving your relationship the best chance to heal.
Whether you’re the husband or the wife, I’d be happy to meet with you and answer all your questions in a personal life coaching consultation. You’ll get clear on what’s happening, what your options are, and what rebuilding can look like from here. Use this link to schedule your personal coaching consultation now. 💛 https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=25635926&appointmentType=34603603
