Footsteps & Fresh Starts Retreat

Seaside Oregon, July 15-20, 2025

Your betrayal healing starts now.

Are you ready to take the first step?

The Crossroads

You never thought you’d be here—lying awake at night, overthinking every conversation, walking on eggshells just to keep the peace.

Date nights feel awkward. Trust feels shaky. Weekends used to be something you looked forward to—now, you find ways to stay busy just to avoid the tension.

But what if things could change?

Imagine sitting with your husband and actually feeling heard. Imagine waking up without that tight, anxious feeling in your chest. Imagine moving through your days with confidence, knowing that no matter what happens next, you’ll be okay.

The retreat leaders won’t tell you whether to stay or leave—but the retreat will give you the clarity and confidence to choose what’s best for you.

Your healing starts here. Your next chapter starts with this retreat.

This retreat is ALL-INCLUSIVE!

Join a small group of women, just like you, and you will...

✅ Gain sure, immovable self-confidence.

✅ Clear trauma from your mind.

✅ Set value-based boundaries, and love your reasons for setting them.

✅ Experience meaningful rest and peace that you can replicate at home.

✅ Build relationships that can last a lifetime.

✅ … and so much more!

More Than a Getaway—A Path Forward

This isn’t just about six peaceful days by the ocean. It’s about what happens after.

When you return home, you’ll carry more than memories—you’ll have a plan. You’ll know how to set boundaries that protect your heart and rebuild trust. You’ll have tools to communicate clearly and confidently. And most importantly, you’ll leave with the strength to step into the next chapter of your life—on your terms.

This retreat is for you if…

You feel emotionally drained and need space to process, heal, and gain clarity.
You’re trying to repair your relationship after betrayal—but aren’t sure how.
You want to rise above the pain of the past and reclaim your future, whether with or without your partner.
You crave connection with women who truly understand what you’re going through.

If this speaks to you, don’t wait. Spots are limited to ensure a deeply personal and transformative experience.

Seaside OR, July 15-20, 2025

You’re exhausted. The weight of betrayal has left you questioning everything—your relationship, your future, and even yourself.

But deep down, you know you don’t want to stay stuck here.

At Footsteps & Fresh Starts, you’ll step away from the noise and into a space of renewal. Nestled in a beautiful beachfront home in Seaside, Oregon, this retreat is your chance to pause, breathe, and focus on you.

Over six days, you’ll be guided through restorative experiences, empowering workshops, and supportive coaching to help you:

Rebuild your confidence and sense of self
Rise above past hurt and create a plan for moving forward
Reclaim your peace, your power, and your ability to choose the future you want

With the ocean as your backdrop and a small, supportive group of women beside you, you’ll leave not just feeling refreshed—but truly ready for what comes next.

Seaside OR, July 15-20, 2025

This is for you!

✔ So many women experience betrayal trauma, and then they are made to feel like there is something wrong with them.

✔ There is nothing wrong with you. You didn’t cause this pain. This happened to you, not because of you.

✔ So what is the problem? No one ever taught us how to make strategic decisions to improve our lives AFTER this kind of crisis.

✔ Now you’re in the middle of this mess. You’re trying to figure it out all alone or with people who just don’t get it.

Retreat Details & Pricing

Location: Seaside Oregon
Dates: July 15-20, 2025
Accommodations: Private and shared room options available
Meals: Chef-prepared meals designed to nourish and restore
Amenities:

What’s Included

6 days/5 nights of guided healing, coaching, and group support
Workshops and exercises to help you find yourself again
A self-care plan tailored to your needs
Tools for healing and strengthening all of your relationships
Time to rest, reflect, and restore

Investment:

Early Bird by April 10, 2025:
Shared Room: $4800 (4 spots)
Private Room: $5100 (3 spots)

Payment plans are available. More Details Below.

This is an all-inclusive retreat!

The transformation and recovery you’ll experience on this retreat is the best part, of course. But to make it even better, we’ve included all the extras and pampering you need to make this Oregon retreat unforgettable.

Before & Aftercare

Worried about falling back into old patterns when you go back home? Want a great way to stay connected with your new best friends? We’ve got you covered!

As part of the retreat package you will also get 2 free one-on-one Life Coaching sessions with life coach Kendra Last, to use anytime before the retreat or in the first 2 months of returning home.

You will also be invited to a private Facebook group to allow us all to stay connected and check in with each other. This will be a fun place to hang out, get to know each other before the retreat, get support, continue learning, and celebrate each other.

Nourishment for Body & Soul

At Footsteps & Fresh Starts, every meal is part of your healing.

For six days and five nights, you’ll be nourished and cared for—no stress, no meal prep, just comforting, home-cooked food made with love.

Mornings begin with a the scent of breakfast in the air, and the sound of ocean waves outside your door. Each meal—whether a hearty breakfast, a fresh and flavorful lunch, or a soul-warming dinner—is designed to satisfy and restore.

Need a snack? There’s always something to grab so you’ll never go hungry.

Here, you don’t have to think about what’s for dinner. You just show up, take a deep breath, and receive the care you so freely give to everyone else.

Imagine This...

The sun is on your skin, the waves crash in the distance, and with each step in the soft sand, you feel lighter.

As you walk along the shore, your mind isn’t spinning with questions or replaying the past—it’s simply here. The scent of salt in the air, the cool water at your feet, the joy of spotting a perfect sand dollar, whole and unbroken.

You came here to heal, and even in this quiet moment, you are.

Every part of this retreat—from the deep conversations to the peaceful walks by the sea—is designed with your healing in mind. And when you take those sand dollars home, they’ll remind you: wholeness is possible.

Location: Seaside Oregon
Dates: July 15-20, 2025

Celebrating You

A Night to Remember

For many women who have experienced betrayal, special occasions—birthdays, holidays, anniversaries—haven’t felt so special. Maybe you’ve been forgotten, dismissed, or made to feel like you weren’t worth celebrating.

That changes here.

One night during the retreat, we’ve planned something unforgettable—an evening designed just for you. A night where you’ll laugh, feel seen, and be surrounded by women who truly understand. Where joy isn’t complicated, and being celebrated doesn’t feel out of reach.

This isn’t just about one night of fun—it’s about reclaiming what’s yours. The right to feel cherished. The right to enjoy special moments without pain. The right to step into the spotlight and receive the love and recognition you deserve.

Because you do.

And this time, you won’t be left out.

Professional Photos

A Portrait of Your New Beginning

By the end of this retreat, you won’t just feel different—you’ll see it.

The confidence in your posture. The lightness in your expression. The way you stand a little taller, knowing you are stepping into a new chapter of your life.

To honor this transformation, a professional photographer will capture beautiful, natural portraits of you—not as the woman weighed down by betrayal, but as the woman who has reclaimed her strength.

No pressure, no stress—just you, standing in the fresh ocean breeze, fully yourself. Along with your individual portraits, we’ll also take a few heartfelt group photos, capturing the incredible bonds formed during our time together.

And because these memories belong to you, every digital file is yours to keep—no extra cost, no watermarks, just beautiful, professional photos to remind you of how far you’ve come.

So bring an outfit that makes you feel amazing. When you look back at these photos, you won’t just see a picture. You’ll see a woman who rose.

What Women are Saying About Life After the Retreat

“Kendra and KayLee- you are angels! Thank you for all your efforts and time to encourage and influence us. [Husband] and I just returned from a two week cruise to the Bahamas. We had a good time which included some hard conversations. He is working on himself and continues to show up for me. That’s important. My faith in God has truly sustained me. He has given me a voice! I’ve grown so much.”

“This year is ending so much better than it started. I’m very grateful…I remembered [from the retreat] I needed to do something for me, to charge my batteries, so I rejoined my old choir and I’m already getting selected for solo work. This is a big dream come true!”

“As for [Husband] and I, we have had some pretty great talks. … We would normally get triggered in these situations because of the stress triggers … This conversation however was different. We talked calmly and at the end I recapped our decision and everything I heard. I expressed my feelings about the situation in a non critical way as well. … We spent the trip without a single argument or fight and openly expressed feelings throughout the trip. It was really nice. Today, I shared some triggers with him when we finally had no listening kiddo ears, he opened up and shared some triggers he had as well with me. He answered all my questions so I could have as much info as I needed. The conversation went really well and I had some follow up thoughts on how to take these places back.

I told [Husband] how much the retreat helped me in these conversations, and I really attribute the last week to it.

“I think other women should come to this retreat because women empowering women is amazing! I will never forget the friendships I made, the laughs, the tears, the valuable information I learned.”

“The biggest take away from the retreat is that I am my own best-expert.”

To summarize…

Here's what's included in the retreat:

Five relaxing nights in a beach house that is literally steps away from the sand
All meals, drinks, snacks
Daily group classes
Two certified Life Coaches present throughout whole retreat
All transformational teachings & ceremonies
Transportation to and from the airport
A special “swag bag”, including t-shirt, Turkish towel, beach bag and MORE!!!
Professional photoshoot, including individual and group photos
Fun night out with a special celebration just for you
Fun free time activities and crafts
Copy of Retreat Workbook
Private Facebook group before and after the retreat
2 one-on-one coaching sessions with Kendra
And SO MUCH more!

What's NOT included in the retreat:

We are not responsible for your round-trip flight from your home to Portland, OR (PDX).
Souvenir shopping.
No alcoholic drinks are provided.
Also not included are items of a personal nature such as: passport, immunizations & medication, gifts, excess baggage, clothes and personal supplies, medical costs, the costs of hospitalization and evacuation from remote areas (we are not visiting remote areas on this retreat), travel insurance and additional expenses arising from the delay or extension of a trip due to airline delays, weather, political disputes, sickness (including COVID-19), failure of transportation, or other causes beyond our control. (Legally required to say this.)

Now is the time to invest in YOU! You are worth it!

Retreat investment

Retreat Private Room:

$5100

(Only 3 rooms)

Shared Room:

$4800

(4 Spots/2 rooms)

Early Bird Pricing is only $4800! To get the Early bird price you must pay in full by April 10, 2025.
$5300 full price needs to be paid by May 31, 2025. (check) Payment Plans Available
Sign up with a friend, each get $200 off!
Payment Plans are available

Healing

Meet Your Retreat Hostesses

We are KayLee & Kendra!

Together we have close to 40 years of experience in the field of sexual betrayal and emotional abuse.
KayLee is a licensed psychotherapist and betrayal navigation coach, and Kendra is a certified life coach & retreat leader.

We know how painful it is to deal with the aftermath of betrayal because we experienced it too.

We know what it is like to feel stuck, hopeless, and miserable no matter what you try because of the choices of the person you loved the most in the world.

Our message to you is: There is hope.

You can learn research-based skills and tools and live the life you want.

We are so excited to get to know you!

Masterclass: Rebuild Rise Reclaim After Betrayal Trauma

Join us July 15-20, 2025 in Seaside, OR!

Who is this for?

Women who have been betrayed in an intimate relationship, experienced narcissistic abuse, and/or are having trouble moving on after divorce, and are wanting to step into their own power and move forward in their life.

Where is the nearest Airport?

Portland, OR (PDX)

Travel to and from the airport to the beach house is taken care of.
We leave for the beach house at 12pm, on Tuesday, June 25th.

We depart for the airport at 2pm on Saturday, June 28th.

Flights are not included in the cost of the retreat, but transportation between the airport to the beach house is.

I feel powerful, but I NEED a get away. Is this still for me?

100% yes! Many survivors feel strong in their decision making, but just need to get away and recharge. This retreat is still the place for you! Schedule a call to find out more.

When will I get access to the Facebook Group?

The Facebook Group will be available May 17th.

After that, the group is closed, and we will know exactly who will be joining us for the retreat.

We will start connecting in the Facebook Group regularly, leading up to the retreat.

After the Empower You Retreat is over, the group will remain open for an additional 3 weeks. We can share photos, ask questions, and follow up on any goals you set during the retreat.

Do you offer a payment plan?

Absolutely! Early Birds can pay in agreed-upon installments as long as it is paid in full by May 17th. A deposit of $100 is required to secure your spot. Sign up for a consult call to see if we'd be a good fit and decide upon a payment plan.

Will this help me decide whether to stay or leave?

This retreat isn’t about making that decision for you. It’s about giving you the clarity and confidence to make the decision for yourself.

What if I’m not comfortable sharing my story?

You don’t have to share anything you’re not ready to. There is no pressure to speak. Healing happens in your own way, at your own pace.

Is this a faith-based retreat?

This retreat is open to all women. While faith and spirituality may be part of some discussions, the focus is on personal healing, not religious counseling.

When and where is this happening?

Luxury Beach House, July 15-20, 2025, in gorgeous Seaside, Oregon.

Exact location details to be disclosed after payment due to the sensitive nature of our retreat.

Will I get therapy or 1:1 coaching at the retreat?

While KayLee is a betrayal-specialized therapist, this is a coaching retreat. Some activities may feel therapeutic in nature, but the purpose of this event is coaching you toward feeling recharged, secure in your decisions, and clear and focused on your future. You will not receive any direct therapeutic services.

While coaching will primarily happen in a group setting, you will have an opportunity to have us look over and make notes on the assignments you are working on during the retreat. We also have time for meals, walks on the beach, and activity events where we may be able to talk in smaller groups or 1:1.