I usually hear directly from my clients about how coaching has changed their lives. But recently, I’ve been hearing from their husbands too. And what they’ve said has reminded me that repair after betrayal can last longer than most people imagine.
When I First Met Miranda
When I first met Miranda, she was a shell of herself. Her husband had betrayed her with her best friend, and she had lost more than the trust in her marriage. She had lost her closest friendships and much of her support system. She told me she needed to do something soon, because she couldn’t stand the pain she was in.
From Barely Surviving to Slowly Rebuilding
Miranda was barely functioning. She could hardly get out of bed or shower. Her husband, who was remorseful, took over as many household responsibilities as he could. He moved out of their bedroom and into another part of the house, giving her space while she tried to survive each day.
When she began coaching with me, progress was slow and steady, just as we would expect. Those early days can feel like trying to untangle a ball of yarn a cat has gotten into, not knowing where the end even is. But week by week, things started to shift. She began to find moments of calm in the middle of chaos, and then joy. Her confidence returned. She started to laugh again.
“You Saved Our Marriage”
By the end of six months, she was thriving. Her husband noticed it too. On our final call together, he asked to join. With tears in his eyes, he told me, “You saved our marriage. If she hadn’t coached with you, I know she would have divorced me.”
I reminded him that it was his wife who did the hardest part. She chose to do the work, face her pain, and rebuild herself. He nodded and said something that stuck with me: “The things my wife learned in coaching have shifted our whole family for the better. Our kids are happier, we are all more present and engaged, and I can’t thank you enough for the support you gave my wife.”
Nira’s Turning Point
Another husband recently told me something similar. His wife, Nira, had felt deeply torn after his betrayal. She was confused by her feelings, overwhelmed by what friends and family were telling her, and unsure if she should stay or go. He admitted, “I really messed up this time. I was sure she’d leave me.”
But she didn’t. Through our work together, Nira began to see that what her husband did was not who he was. She realized she could still love him, even if she hated what he had done. And because he was taking real responsibility and working with his own professional, they were able to start building something new together.
A year later, their relationship is stronger than ever. She told me recently that it feels like they finally have the marriage she always hoped for.
When One Partner Heals, the Whole Family Can Change
Stories like Miranda’s and Nira’s remind me that when one person begins to heal, the ripple effect can reach the entire family. Even if only one partner starts the process, incredible change can happen.
Join Me for the Live Webinar
If you’ve ever wondered whether repair is possible after betrayal, I want to invite you to a live webinar where we’ll talk about exactly that.
Finding Hope After Betrayal: Steps to Begin Repair That Lasts
📅 Tuesday, November 5
⏰ 6pm Central on Zoom
In this 45-minute discussion, I’ll walk you through the exact steps that help women move from hopelessness to possibility, including:
💛 How to remember why repair might be worth it
💛 Releasing shame and blame that keep you stuck
💛 The 2 steps most couples miss
💛 And more
If you have even a small spark of hope left, this will help you fan it into something real. You’ll leave with clarity, practical steps, and the belief that repair might be closer than you think.
If you can’t make it live, you’ll still receive the replay to watch anytime.
Sign up here to join us: https://luxuryladiesretreats.com/finding-hope-after-betrayal/
And don’t worry if you are seeing this after November 5, the same link will let you watch the replay of the call.
You don’t have to figure it out alone. Repair that lasts is possible, and I’d love to help you find your next step. 💛
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